Wednesday, September 30, 2009

socially constructed...

So as I start this blog I need to recognize the woman in my life...my mom! With that being said, I am doing this as an exercise to share my experiences and offer advice to friends or strangers in the relationship game. Am I "qualified" to offer advice? I have been told that I have had many unique experiences and relationships that would make me "qualified" to share with others :) So, here we go!

Here is some advice for all the lovely, talented women out there: men play the game because you allow us too! Maybe you already realize that but seriously your frustrations would decrease exponentially if you would pick up on the OBVIOUS hints that we give! And if this is what you like, do not throw the guy under the bus for performing how he has been "socially constructed" over the last, um, let's see 30-40 years...You've seen this happen to your girl friends and yet you fall into the same sink hole!

Ok, that is it for this 1st post but look for more as I listen to your stories and give you thoughts to ponder in the relationship game...